and yes...good point on exposing to best friend. I am waiting to see what he will do with my dad. My dad won't speak to him AT ALL and gave him the silent treatment during son's bday party. It was VERY uncomfortable but I understand where my dad is coming from.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo