The dreaded LIMBO

[4luv]

Allen,

I don't have any intel right now on OW attitude towards husband. That is what I really want. I know that husband feels like OW betrayed him (yes, I know ironic for husband to talk about betrayal) when she called me and another time when she contacted me through text over Christmas holiday. Basically, OW was at husband's apartment and she went through his things and found a lot of pics of him and I together. When husband returned to his apartment from work, he said she had tapped the pics all over the apartment and still started fussing as to why he had saved pics of me. He told me that he had been trying to break things off for the past couple of weeks and she flew to his state during the last part of her spring break. Husband said that she started ripping up the pics and then took a hammer and swung it at him. That is when husband told OW "I am done with you. You need to leave." Husband told me that their affair (he used the word relationship) had become more volatile and she started doing alot of things after I moved away that got him to start reconsidering things. For example she would say "this isn't reallly your son" or something that she knew would cut husband deep (guilt him about not being in son's life for first 10 months). Since this fight, husband told me that OW texted him to apologize but he keeps saying that he is glad its over with. I know...I don't believe him and it just seems too easy...I completely agree with you and June on this point.

So yes Allen, to me it seems as though he is running in my direction because OW started to become jealous and act out more.