Her stalker is HER problem, and Bill is right, where is her show of faith?
You can only go so far before you just need to throw your hands up and stop, DBS. Life is definitely TOO short for this kind of stuff to go on..and she's trying to drag YOU in the middle, too?
She doesn't need rescuing, she needs to learn to handle HER OWN problems, with NO help from you. She got herself in it, she needs to get herself out of it.
What a tangled web we weave when we try to deceive...and the crap gets deeper. I believe you're right, there is MORE to the story than what's being told right now.
Better put on your boots..and these need to be the ones that come up thigh-high.
Focus on the financial situation..that's where your head needs to be right now.
Not in her drama once again.
Back away, DBS, back away.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.