I have to tell you, that is cold hearted, bush league bullshit.


You need to rethink the way that you picture your wife in your mind. I've heard some pretty mean ways to deliver papers, but that one certainly ranks way up there.


That being said, I tend to think YOUR mind needs to be set much like OP has suggested.


You knew she wanted this taken care of, you've known it was coming. Accept the papers - you probably should have all along. And I do think she expects a negative response. If you haven't already, this may indeed be a chance to send a positive message.


And still.....damn, what a heartless way to get the job done.



Blessings,

Bill


"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."