I agree with what Allen posted above. He needs to do some serious work on himself. Prove that he can live alone for a while and not seek out another OW. And what about the situation with the OW child? Will he cut all contact or have an intermediary? She still lives in another state from him? That is a huge issue....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
