Every time he does something stupid just remember that he has a disease because he does and maybe then you will gain some compassion for him and won't hold all the resentment that is bound to build through this process.
awest makes a very good point. It is going to be very easy to build resentment against your husband right now, and that's completely understandable. It is also, however, going to make it harder if and when you have a chance to reconcile.
If anything, pity him. Because I would hope that someday he will come to his senses and see what a mess he's made of his life.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
