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[ClingingToHope]

If you're not ready to file, then you're not ready to file.

How do you know he's in rehab? Just asking. Are you taking his word for it or have you driven him there?

He's jerked you around so much over the years I'd find it hard to trust anything he says.

Hey, I'm also a little jealous. At least he acknowledged yours. My birthday came and went without a word from STBXW. In fact, while I was celebrating with the girls she was at her L's office. I know this because she signed for a temporary order on child support and visitation stuff and dated it that day.

I've been told by others that shouldn't mean anything. I don't know. She's so cold hearted now I think she may have intentionally set the appointment for that day.

The girls, especially D11, are growing more and more frustrated with STBXW. They don't understand "we aren't compatible" or "we're not right for each other."

I mean, yes, we fought sometimes and there was tension. But they also saw years of good morning kisses, hand holding, flirting.