I asked myself those questions, scarff. And when he came home & started in again I asked him those same questions. So when he started screaming that I should just divorce him because he wanted one anyway, I took him up on it.
It might be lame, but we're going to start the paperwork on one of the DIY sites & then submit them to lawyers.
So I guess that's that. Welcome to my bomb.
I'm going to puke. I'll write more later, he's yelling at me from the kitchen & overly involving the kids already. I kept telling him that we needed to start looking for dissolutions when he was actually capable of having a calm discussion. He just kept yelling that I needed to f&*^ing do it because he f*&^ing hated me. So here we go.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.