What you told D11 may be true, but STBXW may also be giving the girls some insight into how she truly feels. Maybe she does feel like she would be better alone because of all of her own personal problems. Maybe she does feel that because she is more introverted and you more extroverted that it didn't work. I would say to be careful about discrediting what W says to the girls. Maybe say there are a lot of things that caused the marriage to not work and one is that I didn't listen to W. You don't want D11 going back to W saying "Dad says the marriage didn't work because he didn't listen" and so on. Don't say you agree with W, but don't discredit her either because they are her feelings and she is entitled to them, but you can put your spin on it.
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