My observation is you did not give yourself over to this process that focuses on YOU and your own emotional health, detaching from W IS necessary for you to become healthy. This M is toxic right now and you are full of the poison.
Your parents are drawing boundaries for themselves like YOU should be doing. They are telling you they will detach from you essentially if you put yourself back into this situation when you clearly are not healthy enough to make a decision thats right for YOU.
I know you think this OW you are with now his helping, but it is a crutch and a roadblock to your healing. It is not fair to anyone involved.
I have been following your thread and there are some very wise people on here giving you excellent advice but I think they are tired of hearing themselves talk.
Man you need to go back over this thread because all these questions your are asking you should know the answer.
YOU do KNOW you just choose not to do it.
Take a look in the mirror my friend are you seeing what you want to see?
Only you can answer that.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
