I'll check out that website. I'm doing pretty good with NC and I think I'm doing ok with loving from a distance. He knows how I feel even though he likes to claim that I've never wanted him and is surprised that I'm not happy. He knows. Everyone knows how I feel. I'm being more than cooperative, respectful, and nice (even when he's HATEFUL and trying to provoke me) while having visually NC so I'd consider that loving from the distant. Ya think so?