Trent your comments above are very very true. I have done alot of reflectig about our m and have thoughts and concerns about what I want from our m if he chooses to recommit. But at this time I can't really have any sort of conversation with the h because he is clouded and consummed in his highschool ea.
The db coach I spoke with the other day asked me to pretend I was my husband and if she asked him to describe me, what would he say. I thought this was an excellent question and I honestly didn't know how to answer it. Sad but true. She also asked that I try to see my h differently. I have no idea how to do this at all. I've been rattling these questions in my head some.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
