beginning to see the real W

[MrBond]

My T had a good talk with me about this. Essentially it's a matter of "there's nothing to fear but fear itself". I think I see in your sitch that you are so close, but she may be looking at you to lead. It could be that she is living with the shame of what had happened before and in some weird way is looking to you to see if it's okay.

She may not be picking up your "signals" and needs you to break through the ice. Now not saying you need to be forceful or anything, but I think if you pushed up the seduction and spun her around and gave her a passionate kiss or something that would "take her breath away" it might work.

To use the dance analogy, she may be looking to you to lead.