Anyway, so I kind of said to her, well what about that? And she said - that she thinks she enabled me to be unhappy. Whatever issues she had with me in our R - she thinks that she's the cause (or at least the catylist), and that our dynamic just doesn't work.
That's an egocentric view of the world for your W I think. I believe each of us are responsible for our own happiness. In my case, I've figured out what I need to do to make myself happy; I don't look to others to do that for me. You were responsible for your own depression, and now you are responsible for your own happiness. As it should be.
And your W writing off triplet mom as a friend--prob. not a bad idea....
