My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[TrentC]

It does seemed my h is coming around a little tiny bit. I haven't heard the d word for at least a week. Knock on wood!

That is a good place to start. Time really is on your side with this. The more opportunity you have to work on yourself (an the more time the EA has to fall apart), the better for you.

Someone on here once likened it to dating. You didn't spend all of your time discussing where the relationship is headed or what it all means, right? No, you did things together, had fun, and enjoyed each other's company. The same should apply here as well.

There will be plenty of time for R talk if and when he chooses to recommit.