I’m still here on these boards every day reading up on various friends, Kalni, Bobbijo, CL, Dr Love. sometimes Kerry, sometimes John. I don’t post now as I’m not making any effort at all with W or my M following on from details in my last post. I think I read K say that my situation was complicated again, well I think I’ve simplified it, I’ve told W she can **** off with whichever of her friends she wants to. So we are in the same house, we avoid being in the same room as each other and only we only communicate if it relates to D8. At the moment I wouldn’t have it any other way.
That being said I spend a lot of with D8 who is growing into a fantastic young lady, and she is the very thing that keeps me going. The only downside is that she grows to look more and more like W and has picked up some of her annoying mannerism, and habits but I think I can deal with that.
I’ve been on DB nearly 3 years now and through my sitch and reading that of others I can see, hear and smell BS, and W has been BS’ing me in her efforts to piece our M together. A person can twist and turn and put in their best efforts, but if the other party is not interested then there is no chance. So at the moment I have 2 chances, “No” and “slim” and I think slim has just left the building.
I’m still here on DB reading and learning (yes still learning) , still smiling, still working on some personal goals, still being a super Dad, and a Great Uncle. If anyone wants to hear from me shout and I’ll respond but I’m not doing any daily post or regular updates.
Finally, K, I’m so glad things have turned around for you, you are the model of DB that we should all aspire to, and some of the things in your sitch have been so relevant and useful for me, and have helped me in deciding on which road to take for 2010. So you keep up the efforts and I’ll keep reading.
