Well things are now well and truly over. After chatting to my sons they both indicated that they are not ready yet to include a friday nite in their overnite stay with my H. I had to communicate this to my H which he understandably was not happy about. He came over this evening to drop of something and started to discuss it. I kept trying to put off the topic and tell him I didnt want to discuss it around our sons. He start getting verbally angry with me so I let it go. He then was leaving so I tried to smooth things over, which only got worse. I did however do better than I normally do. He then got really angry and unbelievably spat in my face!! I have never had any one do that to me - I was absolute horrified and humilated. I think he realised what he did as he said he should never have done that. I just told him to leave. At first he didnt so I just walked away.
I feel so low now, as I cant believe that he did that. I have never had that happen to me.
I was actually going to suggest that perhaps we get together and disccus finances etc. After his behaviour tonite I dont want to go anywhere near him. Of all the things he has done that was the worst!!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived