I just want to re-iterate that it's OK to give yourself a break from your H. He gave himself a GIANT break from you by moving out...so you are under no obligation to be available to him at any time. In fact IMO it's important for you to listen to how you're feeling and act on it. That's coming from a position of strength rather than playing a totally passive role with respect to your H.
Wise words, flowmom. I am very angry with him right now, so I anticipate taking a long break from him. Thanks for this bit of advice. It's very appropriate for me right now.
