My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

I understand your pug issue...just think about that with a 2 yr old and you have my life.

It is good that H did apologize. One of the things to work on for yourself is forgiveness. Does it stink that he fell asleep at the house? Yes. Is it even worse that he left before you woke up? Yes, but as trent said. He didn't have to apologize and the other thing to think about is that he is so comfortable at home that he fell right to sleep. Take this as a good thing and not a bad. He feels safe enough in your house to go straight to sleep. Yeah it stinks, but that is his problem. He missed out on time with you and let you know that by apologizing.

Stick to what you are doing right now. Work on you. Try to not focus on him and OW (believe me I know how hard that is to do), but once you do, it will get easier and easier. You will have harder days than others, but you will get better all the time.

Hang in there because you really are headed in a good direction. Also make sure you are reading up on how to talk to depressed people so when H is ready you are ready with how to approach the subject and help him help himself. He may not know what to do, but if you have suggestions ready it will make it better.