Show of hands - expose or not - success stories

[JacT]

Pass reflect, reflect, reflect.
Asking him to leave is a biggy for you..I agree with most views he should be well out on his a*** at this point.

I asked my H to leave on exposure of the A.I dont regret telling him to go(bit like Saf..he knew the line NOT to cross) I do regret handing him to the other woman on a plate but I did it on the spur of the moment.
I was hurt and angry and he had finished with OW.(i didnt know this at the time)You are fortunate you can reflect for another day or 2..be sure but dont be frightened of the future.I think 25yrsmlc articulates beautifully what we should be thinking of although not easy.
You dont need his abuse on top of the [censored] he has already dished.Value You and what you stand for..your better than that but you need the courage and strength to do so so Rest..plse hugs..xxxxx