Why would he want to talk to you, there is really no reason unless he feels that he needs to "protect" her from YOU. Is there something that she could be telling him that would make him feel that he needs to step in?

The only time OW wanted to talk to me is when she broke up with my H for the 3rd time and wanted to tell me that she is sorry for everything. I told H that I don't want to talk to her. She didn't call but instead 2 weeks later restarted the affair with H.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO