Thank you so much kissak. Your story gives me encouragement.

H & OW had this back and forth going since the affair became public. It was always her pulling out. This would have been the fourth time that she ended it. H said that for the first time he felt that if she didn't bring up the break up he would have. I'm inclined to believe that he would have because he couldn't trust her anymore. Regardless of who ended it he is really brokenhearted over it.

And I don't trust that they are not in touch anymore...who knows.

I have to get myself back to that place where I was before he wanted to R. And for now just forget about working on R. He'll let me know when he is ready to move forward.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO