H left almost 3 weeks ago! Help! (long post)

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Soleil, thanks so much. I did post a new thread on WAW forum. I've started to get some wonderful help.

How do I link my threads?

I've told him that the kids deserve this to go smoothly and to give them time to adjust. He's been gone one month today. For two weeks, I've heard that we should sell the house. He thinks that the faster everything happens all piled up back to back (him leaving, selling the house, moving, D), the faster they can start to recover and accept their new lives. Says he thinks it's better to just give them one huge bomb rather than one at a time with a adjusting period in between.

He's lost it!