Lola, how long has it been since your D finalized? Was it last month? How long were you separated before that (if at all)? Sorry I couldn't find your original sitch but I'd love to be in your position some day. If the D made you stronger (as opposed to being in the limbo) I want to look forward to that day then. Some people say even after two years since the D they still often want their spouse back...just the thought of that is disconcerting.

Kalni, I read elsewhere your LL is physical touch - where have you been all my life? LOL Seriously though, after my STBXW I was starting to believe that women agree to it just to keep us guys happy and it's not something they actually enjoy themselves.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again