Ignore previous post....what I should've said was....
It's really frustrating that my H is acting the way he is and although his own family wants to choke him, they just let it slide and say nothing to him. I wish they would tell him to stop the self-pity, stand up like a man and take care of his problem (job, health, mental issues) for once in his life, stop being so freakin hateful to people and expecting them to kiss his butt, etc. They're not going to though (as much as they want to)b/c since being a child, he's been babied and never taught right from wrong because his family is too scared to tell him what to do, not to do, and how to act. God forbid that would mean H might get mad at them. That's how it's always been. Mom, Dad, me, my fam...everybody walks on eggshells, let him be a jerk, and takes care of his every worry. Now he's running from his worries, blaming me for everything, and saying that he needs a D because we can't get along.
My parents would rip me a new one if I did the things he's doing no matter how old I was. When I'm right, they say so and when I'm wrong, they definitely say so. Jeez! Parents are parents for life and you should always make sure your kids (no matter the age) are doing what's right!
