Ahh.. yes, just when I needed a sign from above. He provided.
Detaching is so much easier when they continue to spew the mean, nasties and deny their role in healing and/or harming the R.
In midst of the fallout from a week-end event, XH relates that he never really forgave me for things from very early in our R as well as early in our MC efforts. And he never has really trusted me since then..
huh, go figure.. I wonder if that is why it was difficult to reconcile, deal with his own growth & anger issues when he didn't forgive.
oh well, while not perfect in my growth efforts and changing.. I was willing to work through the efforts it took to forgive and open the path to rebuilding trust .. well past time most people would have.
And I move along...there's something beautiful to see.
