It's really frustrating that my H is the titty baby, self-pity, never takes care of his own problems no matter how small, lazy, etc., b/c since being a child, he's been babied and never taught right from wrong because his family is too scared to tell him what to do and not to do.
My parents would rip me a new one if I did the things he's doing no matter how old I was. When I'm right, they say so and when I'm wrong, they definitely say so.