My advice here.....if you two are not going to attempt to rebuild a relationship after the divorce, then in no way should you live in the same household. You will never be able to move on with your life if you do. You will not be able to do what you want, not be able to meet someone new and build a relationship. In a sense you will be torturing yourself.
I second this. In house seperation and seeing/talking to too often a spouse who is no longer with you is torturous and draining of energy. It prevents you from looking forward. Looking forward once a situation has eroded is not a bad thing either.
