Originally Posted By: nicole8
I have made it my goal this week to join a gym and begin doing something more positive with my time than thinking about my husband being an alien.


That sounds good. And it doesn't all have to be out-of-the-house stuff. Do you have any hobbies you've been neglecting? New hobbies to pursue? Books you'd like to read?

It will become easier to detach as time goes on.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."