So my husband has exposed to his best friend (the best man in our wedding) everything that happened. His best friend is supportive and told husband that he did the best thing by ending the affair and coming clean with the truth. Husband's best friend lost his wife and marriage about a year ago and desperately wanted to make it work but his wife had enough.
I am pleased that husband exposed his affair and what had been going on to his best friend. One of the issues I had was that no one but husband's mom and one brother REALLY knew what happened so I am glad that husband is not trying to look like nothing happened amongst our close friends and family.
Husband is also changing both of his cell phone numbers. I asked him if he was willing to do it and he didn't hesitate. He said that the work cell will take longer to change but that he is going to tell HR that someone keeps calling his number and he needs to change the number. He keeps saying that he wants to do whatever it takes to earn my trust and forgiveness. He didn't even balk at sending a no contact letter this time (we haven't written it yet but before when I suggested it he had excuses for why he had to remain in contact due to the child). I suggested contact via an email account that we both have access to in order to discuss child issues with OW.
Why is he doing things so easily? Does that mean that the affair is possibly not over or did OW just piss him off enough for him to see her true colors and want me.
Last edited by 4luv; 04/19/1007:01 PM.
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo
