(((((BG)))))(((((BBJ))))) The thought of a pet snake has never held any interest for me!
Babygirl, have I mentioned how happy I am that you are back, and doing so much better?
The OM thing... I wonder how many OPs got into something never expecting to be an OP? It could be so easy to rationalize. There's a slippery slope. Going to make sure I don't get near the edge.
And this is why I don't check out any of the Match people with 'separated' in their status, even though I used to be one of them...because Dan told ow #1 back in 2002 that he and I were "separated"...meanwhile we were living together, married, with a 6 week old baby!!!
So I don't want to start seeing a guy only to find out that he is still married...good for you on keeping those boundaries clear!