Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
Although I have decided to be patience with the process, I did email W about some financial things that needed to be addressed. I curently pay the car and life insurance and I told her that this is due. I asked for a check for her half and offered her an option to remove herself from the policy and get her own.

Why should I be paying for her things? I also been been payig the mortgage and when the time is right that needs to be address too. Since her name is still on the title she still owes half of the payment.

Has anyone else experienced this?


You should not be paying for her things. She needs a dose of reality. Is the car in her name or yours? If yours, well, then it's your payment to make. But if it is in her name....Big Girl Panties.. She needs to pay for it just like she will have to when she is no longer Mrs. Gr8. That goes for everything that is exclusively HERS. If it touches the children, offer to split the costs.

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