Yes she did Andabelle but then felt like she had let herself down b/c she lost her temper (and who wouldn't in the circumstances!)

D14 declined to go to her dad's this week. He wasn't very happy about that and tried to defend himself (unsuccessfully) when she explained she wasn't going in support of D20.

Today she called round there to collect something she had left behind and needed. Whilst there she asked if she could bring her hamster home to me. They refused to let her. She pointed out that they weren't feeding it or giving it any water and XH promised to 'do better' at remembering! OW said she couldn't bring it home as 'they' had spent �60 on the cage. It would seem that even when something is bought/given as a present the monetary value still determines real ownership frown D14 has now asked me to consider buying a cage so that she can just put the hamster in her pocket next time she is there and bring it home. She said she was going to do this without telling XH and then next time she does go to spend some time there accuse him of loosing it! Classic

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15