You work at it and eventually the 'faking it' becomes second nature...confusing many of the WAS's ideas about you. It's almost a shock and it's taken a good year and a half for this to happen in my case.

The truth about going dark, is that you aren't really going totally dark. You act as if you are moving on and leave the door open to the possibilty of reconciliation.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08