Thank you for the kind words thegoodfight. I will look into that book.
My pastor is a great guy, but not a "militant" in that he does not tell me I HAVE to do anything. He does a lot of work within the diocese's annulment council and earlier mentioned that he could be of help in that area, without me requesting it.
I am still very clear on my position in saving our family and restoring my marriage to the state it should have been in earlier. So the message I feel I have been getting is hold on through the fire. But I do admit sometimes I feel like throwing in the towel. I think it is more out of the desire to end the pain and move on, which is likely a product of my own human impatience, and concern for myself. Throw my kids into the mix though, and the decision to keep fighting is clear.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09