You do indeed have a delicate situation. And I agree with your L - pick your battles carefully.
The one thing I really like is that you have now developed a good dislike for your XH. And you are well aware of his vicious cycle.
What are the possibilities of you meeting a new guy in the future?
Thank you Kerry. Sometimes I get on such a roll with exh that my boundaries fly out the window.
Possibilities? LOL Pretty slim right now. I am just not around many men and if I am they are with thier wives etc. My social outlets are mommy girls nights out and doing other things with my mommy group. Can't say it wouldn't be nice to meet someone someday, but I just don't feel like I have the emotional capacity right now...not sure if that makes sense. There mere thought of the rollercoasters of a new relationship and what that entails is quite overwhelming. I wish I could find a 'friend' that would sort of be on-call. When I want to watch a movie I can call him. Dinner? Conversation? Whatever? Same thing. That would be nice, but a full time relationship is beyond me now.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
