Just wanted to check and see how you are doing. I am not sure I would have been able to hold it in like you did with your SIL. Good for you.

I say detach from them. They will be going through their own roller coaster soon and you don't need to be on THAT ride.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory