It does not bother me as much as her having an affair. The thing I am most concerned with is the missing love element in the marriage more than the physical contact. It is important for me to get that back because the other would more naturally follow.
Excellent point!!!! I really thought about this one. It really is the love element that I miss as well. I understand how bad the affair must be for you. I am honstly not sure what I would do if that happened to me. I always thought it was unforgivaeable, but I guess it also the situation that would determine what it is.
I would give anythngi so see that look in her eye again that you know that she is "In Love" again. To have her look lovingly into my eyes and then just be together. How can we heal the hurt?
