"My W told me recently that part of the problem in the past, was that she felt like she could never make me happy--I'm too fussy and critical. She washed my shirts this weekend, and I fortunately was smart enough to thank her for it, even though I was wondering if she did it the way I would have"
Kind of the same thing happened here but reversed. A while back w told me that she gets frustrated when I don't turn my socks right side out.This is not a problem for me...but she just never told me she wanted them that way. I have sense made sure...Communication
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know