Yes Jack and know my role in forcing this. I pushed it. I did not deal with the OM well. I confronted when I thought I was "done" and I was really not done. Now I must just feel this pain and continue on the path of learning. This will impact my kids the most. I did speak with her and asked why she did not tell me and why she did not wait till Sept. I also asked what she is looking for and she has indicated that she will go for everything.
As you can imagine I feel like shi* right now.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans