It's the being manipulated I can't stand when I have been yelled at recently for being lying and manipulative.
Your H should be totally honest with you about coparenting. But can you see that when you are insisting on controlling the parenting, you are encouraging dishonesty and manipulation on his part? I'm not blaming you for his actions, but from where I'm sitting you're putting him in a very difficult situation given his stated position of wanting to D and continue to be a father. I'm sorry if it's hard to hear that. You know that I care about you. (((hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
