he loves me but isn't in love with me and he doesn't think this marriage will work, wants to separate (some days he'll say yes, usually after we've had an argument), thinks too much has happened and I won't get over his A. hmmmm..
Also, he holds so much anger and resentment towards me and blameshifted all his wrongdoing onto me. I am the reason he did what he did. go figure.
This is EXACTLY how my H was during our D sitch. He DID NOT love me anymore, except as the mother of his children. He had so much resentment towards me, he didn't think he could forgive & forget. His resentment was built up b/c he felt I would reject him when he wanted to have S & this made him feel rejected & resentful.
This made my eyes well up.
This is how he feels to a T!
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
