If I may be so bold, I agree a pastor can give great advice. A word of caution though, the Good Lord wants a relationship with you and he will tell you things through the holy spirit that he will not tell others. Balance the counsol of others vs. what gives you peace.
Joyce Meyer wrote a great book (IMO) called " How to Hear from God: Learn to Know His Voice and Make Right Decisions". This book is a quick read, a few great passages from the bible and a great understanding. Bottom line your relationship with God is yours. "He" is a jealous God, all loving but jealous. "He" wants you to go to him and will tell you things he will not share with anyone else, despite what anyone says. In the book she speaks about peace and waiting 24 to 48 hours and sometimes longer before making any major decisions.
Your choice to stick it out or call it quits qualifies as "major". The easy road is to give up, the hard road involves patience and making the decision not when you want but when the answer shows itself. Be careful, there is nothing better for the "adversary" than the disintigration of the family unit. Trust your "spirit" to guide you and you will have inner peace in whatever decision is made. Do not worry God allows u-turns if you find you have made the wrong one.
The opposition will rise when you are on the right path. The world says give up its hopeless, "hope" says hang on and try again. Keep up the great attitude, hang on until you know for sure. This way you can avoid a u-turn! Peace and prosperity to you and your family!
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
