JacT, it was that website that made me think H was in MLC. It's exactly him to a t - exactly - like it was written about him.
I'm detaching quite nicely already. Just after saying I would, I feel better. I emailed H an answer to a q he asked me last week and when he replied, I saw his email and didn't even have the desire to open it. I just don't care what he says/thinks right now.
I've been working hard today and thinking through what I want to do first to work on myself. Tonight is the beginner's karate class that I had wanted to take, wondering if I can do that. He said the first class is free if I just want to join in to see if I like it.