My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

Trent thanks for slapping me around some.....I obviously need it.

I have made it my goal this week to join a gym and begin doing something more positive with my time than thinking about my husband being an alien. The gym I want to join my h belongs to and so does my sister. Hopefully one day my h might want to work out together....but I can't control what he wants to do. If he chooses to work out with me that is great if not that is great too!

Thank you again for setting me straight. The best thing I can do right now is nothing but take care of myself and my awesome little pug. Side note, the pug is so happy to see the h when he comes over. It is do sad that he is hurting the dog also. I talked with my friend this morning about how my h acted and she said that it is just more obvious that this has nothing to do with me and it is all about him.... Yes, I believe this is correct. She also commented that no mater what I do at this point it will be wrong or the opposite of what my h thinks should happen. Yes, again I think she is correct. Focus on myself is really all I can do.