Ok, just got an email back from my attorney. I stated the latest events of the no drop in saga etc. I also asked if it would be better to get someone court appointed to supervise visits..

His response was basically asking me if exh is dangerous or threatening me in any way or more annoying? He said he sounded more annoying than anything. He said I have a really good deal right now and would advise against rocking the boat for mere annoyance. He also used the terms you are clearly winning this war...pick and choose your battles wisely. He said to maybe find other things to do while exh is here and avoid the text conversations other than baby. Best thing I can do is appear cooperative and reasonable. He said he would pursue this if it was what I really wanted but unless exh is threatening me in some way then put aside the drama and keep myself busy rather than engaging.

I do agree with him in a way. This would only stir up more hatred and venom. Not what I want. I DO have a good deal. Exh has nothing really so if he wants to stomp his feet, let him. When things are difficult he tends to stay away anyway.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!