Fear that if I pull away too much, he'll leave and won't come back. Fear that I am going to be strong and NC him and let him make the effort and that I will GAL and do my thing and that he'll LIKE the NC and won't miss me and won't realize that this marriage is what he does want.
What's going to happen is you are going to realize that you still have a life WITHOUT him and are ok WITHOUT him and so if he decides to leave YOU WILL BE FINE WITH THAT!!
On the other hand, you will be a happy, confident, awesome, beautiful woman who is completely self-sufficient, and he's going to say "what the he!! was I thinking" and come running home
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
