What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

So I'm hanging out with his mom again tonight, and I'm going to say something. I'm probably going to say, "Overnight I realized that WH is still blaming me a lot for the ending of the marriage. It really bothers me, and I want you to know you are only getting not even half of the story."


I've decided that I am going to write his parents an email today. I do want them to read it before they see WH again on Tuesday. My main goal is defending myself to them.

Gatsby, I honestly think this will make things worse. You have to go know his parents are humiliated and ashamed of their son for treating you like this. They don't want to believe their son is capable-so they are looking for justification for his behavior- like there must be a good reason!

I strongly advise you don't initiate this conversation or email. If they bring it up, then carefully choose your words and in a very very respectful way maybe say something like "I appreciate your concern, but I would like to keep discussion of my marriage between H and I from now on...I know we aren't talking but that is my choice. When I am ready to talk to him I will. Please just remember that in any marriage, there are problems, and in any marriage, both spouses have faults. Thank you!"