We had a really good weekend. We went to a parenting conference Friday night & Saturday morning. Awesome!!! It has completely changed the way we deal w/ the boys in a wonderful & good way.

Then last night, we all went out to dinner, which we haven't done in awhile. The boys are 10, 5 & 4, so that explains why. BUT, we had an awesome time! They were angels & the steak was the best!

After our D sitch, we were only "ok" for about a month before he had to leave for Korea for a whole year, so I know how it feels when they have to leave for an extended period of time. I think it will be good. Just GAL lots & when you talk to him, just act "as if" everything is wonderful and I believe he'll see what he's letting go if he goes that way.

It seems like you are in a really good place mentally though & that's great. Let him be the one who does the calling, etc.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10