"We both agreed that digging up the past won't help with MC, and we need solution oriented to help us move forward."
I believe you're wrong here. You need to figure out what happened in the past that might have caused this current sitch. Look on these boards. Too many people are back here again because they swept their original problems under the rug. Too many.
Address your past issues now so they don't resurface. Not saying that a specific event in the past caused your current problems, but it's usually a culmination of many "little" resentments.
Bond,
Are we saying while it may be good to address the large milestones, that there may be some fundamental reasons why things would get so bad in the first place. Perhaps these fundamental flaws, personality issues or mis-communications could be dealt with or managed as to eliminate issues in the future.
